Tearing my hair out over here looking for a little guidance or just wondering if anyone else has had a similar issue. Basically, my husband has a touch of asthma (not chronic) and it has been getting gradually worse over the last few years. He has put that down to the time that he and I got married and I moved in with two of my cats. He went along to the doctor yesterday and the doctor basically agreed with him, blamed the cats and told him to get rid of them! As you can understand, I am beside myself with this news.
A little backgound: hubby and I have been together for 5 years, I had cats well before he came into the picture so this was not new information to him. He is not a "cat person", preferring dogs, and has always made his dislike of my cats quite clear. After we got married, we moved into his house, and he has always been very vocal about not wanting the cats to be here. I feel he has told the doctor exactly what he wanted in order to blame the cats and finally have a genuine reason for getting rid of them.
I'm really at my wits end here. I feel as though I'm being a massive cow by not taking his health concerns into consideration, but I feel he is not seeing my side at all. Not only are these cats my family (my babies), but they both have health issues (one with diabetes) so I am not going to just hand them off to someone and not look back.
Anyone had to deal with anything similar?