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My Baby Boy " Thomas" 9th month old (Blue Russian) passed away tragicaly on the 25th Aug 09 from internal bleeding post neutering operation the day before , I cannot express the devestation I felt and have cried for day , I cannot make any sense of it and blame myself . He had such a beautiful soul love him so much !!!
Devesated Thomas 9th Dec 08 to 25th Aug 09 I
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Posted 04 September 2009 - 08:58 PM
Goodness me that is sooo sad - I feel for you. A Neutering operation is usually such a simple procedure - I imagine your vet was gutted as well....
R.I.P. little fellow.
Please don't blame yourself - it sounds like something very tragic and untoward happened...(((hugs)))
R.I.P. little fellow.
Please don't blame yourself - it sounds like something very tragic and untoward happened...(((hugs)))
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Posted 04 September 2009 - 08:58 PM
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Posted 04 September 2009 - 09:11 PM
You are sharing with the most caring of people here,
Dont blame yourself, nature works in the strangest of ways,
I had a RB many years ago, they are beautiful furry companions,
RIP dear Thomas
Hugs to you,Paul
Dont blame yourself, nature works in the strangest of ways,
I had a RB many years ago, they are beautiful furry companions,
RIP dear Thomas
Hugs to you,Paul
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Posted 04 September 2009 - 09:16 PM
RIP dear Thomas and big hugs to you for your loss. 
and big hugs to you for your loss.
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Posted 04 September 2009 - 09:26 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. I have owned 3 Russians (two are current).
It sounds like there must have been some unfortunate events for this to occur, but you cannot blame yourself, it is better for them to be desexed - and you were trying to do the right thing for him, your intent for him to have the surgery was for the right reasons. Please do not feel guilty for that, this wasn't your fault.
I have been a nurse (people) for 25 years, sometimes, despite all the care and the best intents, tragically things can go wrong, it isn't often, but when it does happen, it is devastating.
Again, I am very sorry for the loss of your dear Thomas.
It sounds like there must have been some unfortunate events for this to occur, but you cannot blame yourself, it is better for them to be desexed - and you were trying to do the right thing for him, your intent for him to have the surgery was for the right reasons. Please do not feel guilty for that, this wasn't your fault.
I have been a nurse (people) for 25 years, sometimes, despite all the care and the best intents, tragically things can go wrong, it isn't often, but when it does happen, it is devastating.
Again, I am very sorry for the loss of your dear Thomas.
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Posted 05 September 2009 - 10:25 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. That is so sad. 
I have never heard of that happening before. Have you spoken to the vet about why it happened? It just doesn't seem right to me, especially in a boy (the op is so simple).
I have never heard of that happening before. Have you spoken to the vet about why it happened? It just doesn't seem right to me, especially in a boy (the op is so simple).