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A Very Upset Boy
#1
Posted 18 October 2009 - 09:00 PM
His behaviour has changed dramatically over the past couple of months as a result and he started being growly with us, lashing out at the kids feet if they tried to walk past and even attacking me in the same way. He was aggressive to the other 4 but worst of all he started pee-ing on beds, washing and anything left on the floor.
Of course the first thing we did was a vet trip to rule out anything medical (particularly as he had a blocked bladder back in May) the vet confirmed our thoughts that this is purely behavioural.
We bought a Feliway diffuser but it really has had no effect on him whatsoever, we also confined him to the laundry in order to re-train him..he refuses to use the tray and will pee wherever he pleased up the door, on top of the washing machine, next to the litter tray etc. He does however continue to use the tray to poo in so that's something at least.
Since we decided to not refill the Feliway diffuser his behaviour has settled to a degree, he is becoming a bit smoochier again, letting the kids and us pet him, giving us kisses once in a while but he just will not stop pee-ing throughout the laundry and the house if he is allowed free range. I feel like I am letting him down and sometimes I am so tempted to just open the front door and let him roam so he will be happy again (we live in a quiet culdesac by the way so not as bad as it sounds) but not the answer to the problem really.
So anyway yesterday I purchased some Bach Rescue Remedy as I have heard of it used often with cats on this forum so can anyone tell me how much do I need to give him and how? Does it go in his water, and is it okay for the other cats to drink it too? Am i supposed to put it on him somewhere? Will it work for this kind of behaviour?
He really is a lovely boy and re-homing is absolutely not an option...making this work somehow is the only option we are willing to look into.
he is about 7 years old now, and yes he is desexed if that makes any difference, he is also on a special cat food diet due to his previous bladder issues but our vet (who is a huge cat lover) says he is fine medically now and this is behavioural.
Any other suggestions? He is so unhappy and I am unhappy with having to keep him shut in the laundry so much.
#2
Posted 18 October 2009 - 10:03 PM
I would try to get the enclosure working.
Other than that. I put a few drops of RR in water or behind the ears. It wont do any harm to your other cats.
I feel so sorry for him.
#4
Posted 19 October 2009 - 07:40 AM
Getting the enclosure working again is not going to happen, the Council refuses to let us use it at this point in time despite it being a totally legal building..apparently the neighbours child is allergic to cats and the enclosure is close to his bedroom window so we aren't allowed to use it. Would have been nice to know this before building a $2000 cat run though.
We actually have also a 2m strip from the back fence all the way down to the front road on our shared boundary with them that is now a "cat prohibited zone"...no idea what we are supposed to do about other local cats being that area. It's all absurd and the source of immense stress here. Think i shall have some RR too!
#5
Posted 19 October 2009 - 09:00 AM
I would push this issue. If you've done it all correctly, and spent soo much money, I wouldn't just take it. Just because your neighbours kid is allergic, doesn't mean you can't let your own cats be protected in an enclosure! They wouldn't be able to do anything if all the cats were outside cats, would they? So why should they be able to say no to this.
I know most local councils are a load of crap, but this is ridiculous.
#6
Posted 19 October 2009 - 10:51 AM
Relocating the run is not an option as it is custom built along that side of the house, putting it anywhere else will cost lots more money and will only be half the size at best plus we have nowhere to put it where the cats can have free access from the house, so we are stuck and just need to find a way to get Ollie to adjust.
#7
Posted 19 October 2009 - 11:06 AM
There was actually a study done recently which showed that cat and dog hair isn't a huge problem with people with asthma. I suffer from asthma and have never had a problem with dog or cat hair. If I can find the study, I will let you know because it might help your case
#8
Posted 19 October 2009 - 11:18 AM
I'm presuming that your neighbour has medical evidence (from an allergy specialist) to support his claim that his child will have an asthma attack if the cats are in your enclosure on your side of the fence? I would get a copy of the report and see a solicitor myself. They may help find some compromise (although you may have to threat your local Council with litigation to initiate a compromise).
When I was growing up, one of my friends (a neighbour) had really severe asthma yet all cats used to wander around the streets and their property. It was never an issue. It just meant she couldn't have pets herself.
#9
Posted 19 October 2009 - 11:21 AM
This is the sort of info that would help in a litigation case against the Council. I really do think it is worth trying, especially as not being allowed to let your cats use the run is now causing your family health issues (one cat weeing all over the house) and stress (trying to solve the problem).
#10
Posted 19 October 2009 - 11:40 AM
Let it also be known that we are the only cat owning family in the street that has had these restrictions placed on us and yet there are neighbours opposite whose cats (more than two) roam the streets and gardens (their fighting with my Ollie is what prompted us to get the enclosure so we would be free of abcess related vet bills) but they have not been penalised or contacted in anyway. This is just a grudge against us it seems.
They actually own a dog, a labradoodle but apparently that's okay for them to have a dog..but we don't have the right to have our cats on our own property.
We have had at least two cats for the last 10 years since we moved here, 2 years ago we got our third cat (an inside girl due to her colourings) and late last year we kept 2 foster kittens but it was only when the enclosure went up that the neighbours complained yet the older two cats had been outside and down the side of the house etc for 10 years and this was the first we had heard of it.
It is the most insane situation ever, no one we have spoken to can believe that this has happened yet there is no route to take to actually complain. Suing people costs money that we just don't have and technically the Council can remove all our animals if we fail to comply so right now I am just concentrating on trying to get Ollie settled inside.
#11
Posted 19 October 2009 - 12:42 PM
I don'thave any answers four you about the cat run, but if there was a brick wall in between it and the next door maybe that could solve the problem, but that being said your next door neighbours are not palying fair, particularly if cats have been free roaming over their property whilst the kid has been growing up.
Anyway, back to Ollie, it sounds like you may need to take him to the vets for medication as he is doing "redirected agression" to you - thats the attacking bit and the weeing is certainly letting you know that he is not happy. I had my Jasper on Buspar, its an anti depressant and it worked well. He was on it for 6 months and I managed to resolve the pooing problems that I had. I did hold some just in case he started again, but it seemed to help settle him, he was a bit more mellow, it took a couple of weeks to get the dosage right and then it was okay. Maybe talk to your vet as I know that it is sort of the last resort in medication, but sometimes you need it to break the mannerisms/patterns that he has developed.
#12
Posted 20 October 2009 - 11:03 AM
I am going to thoroughly clean the laundry today to try to rid it of the smell and see how we go. I hope this is our answer though. Can you give RR long term though!?
#13
Posted 20 October 2009 - 12:03 PM
Okay....
I don't usually recommend this but it works....every time.
You contact the media.....either Today Tonight at Channel 7 or ACA at Channel 9. You tell the story and you stress that it will mean getting rid of your cats and how your family will suffer. You point out the council's inflexibility and that your neighbours have provided no proof.
THEN you ring the council and nicely ask for the name of their media Liaison Officer, telling him/her that you need to get their name because the TV and press will be wanting to speak to the council direct. Don't make the neighbours the baddies.... that won't interest the media. make the council the villains of the piece. Don't bag the neighbours un-necessarily ( you still have to live there) but DO present any backup material that the cats are not contributing to the asthma and that a cat enclosure is far better than cats roaming free.
I know you may have butterflies about doing this...but believe me, if you make it clear this is an injustice - the networks will run with it especially since it is crazy to suggest that the cats roaming free is less of a threat than the enclosure.
I work in television....it's the kind of stoy current affairs programmes love, and my guess is, with proper coverage, the council will back down. I've had to use this threat three times.... and it's never gone as far as going to air.
Two other people I helped DID have their stories go to air...and BOTH won against their local councils
Good Luck....
Coral

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